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Where to Start?

Most schools teach offense first. (Armbar First, No Mercy). This model says start with survival.

The entry point to grappling isn't as much position, as it should be a mindset.

Beginners and coaches alike face this question. Everyone has an opinion. Learn this take-down, here's a sweep. Learn this guard. Start from standing. Here's a great guard. Here's an alternative that focuses on creating a foundation of being comfortable in bad positions first. From there you can unlock everything else.

01Resilience is the Foundation

Two things must come first. Before submissions or even positions. An ability to survive to explore and counter attack.

Goal 1

Escaping Pins

Can you survive being held down? Can you breathe under mount, under side control, under knee-on-belly? Until the answer is yes, everything else is built on sand.

Goal 2

Retaining Guard

Escaping pins can take a lot of energy. Not getting there in the first place is even better. Pound of cure vs gram of prevention or something. Can you keep someone from passing your legs? Not even attacking from guard, just keeping it. Guard retention is the first layer of defensive comfort.

These two skills give you something no technique can: the confidence that bad situations are survivable. That conviction is what makes risk-taking psychologically available. I think it was Danaher who said that confidence should be built on objective skills.

02Confidence Creates Options

With surviving skills, confidence emerges. You can live to fight another day, you can counter-attack. I find the explore-exploit algorithm suitable here.

+ + + + + + + feedback Comfort Escaping Pins (Goal 1) Comfort Retaining Guard (Goal 2) Confidence / Taking Risks explore exploit Creativity / Mindful Practice EXPLORE % Chance of Reaching Dominant Positions Maintain Dominant Positions Achieve Submissions EXPLOIT: "Your 'A' GAME"
Click any node to learn its role in the system.

03Why Exploring and Creativity Matters

There's a difference between logging mat time and extracting signal from it. Just showing up vs active learning.

Confidence born from skills unlocks the option to explore. To not stress and tense from every exchange. Exploring creates variance in the situations you encounter. Variance is the precondition for gaining new insights.

The higher your comfort with escapes, the higher your ability to experiment. More novel situations encountered per session. More signal per roll. This is one way to have training become generative instead of repetitive.

Trying new techniques Trying new transitions Starting from bad positions voluntarily Relaxing / reducing tension on purpose Exploring your limits Playing with "invisible jiu-jitsu" Getting creative
It's hard to extract much signal from a roll when you are either 1) trying to completely dominate the other or 2) getting totally smeshed.

The explore branch feeds back into the exploit chain. Exploration allows your to discover better ways of doing things you already did, and plugging holes in your game. The whole system is a positive feedback loop. Another key element not quite in the graph is that having a deep knowledge of all the escape patterns makes you that much better at shutting them down.